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Alienated Parents of Teens

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HOLY SHIT… IT IS ACTUALLY UNBELIVABLY ONE EXACT YEAR ON TIS EXACT DATE MAY 3rd THAT Madison’s final submission of her poems changed everything in life …. Talk more about this…..

But her poem about me expessically parroting her dad’s words that one out of the 4 themes reapeted since pregnant was a instant movement back to day one when this hell began. Yes It was 2 straight weeks of non-stop crying and it didn’t matter how much I knew about alienation and knew her words were so parroted that he said the exact same thing to me since pregnant thathe used on her tha

 

 

I was working on some therapy things that of course you’re my main subject always when it gets down to it. Everything we were never allowed to talk about and then the one time I attempted we then were never allowed to see each other again with then even more ultimate years we were kept apart. I am not asking you to even come close to talking about anything but I am asking you to help yourself by letting me help you to find a sense of trust and/or faith something maybe so far back that you would be willing to watch your entire early childhood when you loved mommy beyond everything and start at the very beginning and watch our 6-1/2 years + of memories that 95% you have never seen, let alone you have no memory of those years anymore. (I have been waiting for one home movie to get done that completes your entire childhood).

I’m asking you to meet me half-way with this and have the same common sense when this first started that when things don’t add up and don’t align with your heart and soul you become aware that things just aren’t right… and give a thought to how we were NEVER allowed to talk about ANYTHING that EVER happened that totally defeats every single reason what, why & for everything about THERAPY is meant for. Just put at least that in place because that all is too old when there are current things to focus on and new positive things you deserve for your life to be filled with. I want you to find your complete happiness Maddie.

 

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Anonymously posted on FB private(???) group “Alienated Parents of Teens”

 

129 likes/sad emojis in support

79 comments verbally replied

 

 

May 3, 2023

 

After 13 years of strongly holding on to hope that my alienated daughter now graduating would always come back home to me one day is now shattered into a million pieces. In extreme rare circumstances I see her submitted school work. Today was one of those times and viewed 6/7 very dark poems she wrote for her creative writing class. This was one of her poems about me. I will never be the same or okay again.

 

Mother Rabbit

Mother rabbits eat their young

When they sense danger

Or when they cannot provide

For their litter anymore.

My mother didn't eat me

In the literal sense

But she consumed me

In other ways.

She devoured my dreams

Tore apart my aspirations

And chewed on my self-worth

Until there was nothing left.

She feasted on my potential

Until it was just a memory

And swallowed my confidence

Leaving me empty.

I was once her precious creation

But now I am just a shell,

A hollow carcass of who I could have been

All because she couldn't handle the responsibility.

Like the mother rabbit,

She saw me as a threat

To her own security and comfort

So she devoured me whole.

The wounds still remain

Raw and bleeding, never quite healing

The pain lingers on, a constant reminder

Of what was lost, of what was taken away.

And though I try to move on

To let go of the hurt and the anger,

The memories of her devouring me

Haunt me still, in the darkest hours of the night.

For even though I have rebuilt myself

And forged a new path, a new life,

The scars of her consumption remain

A testament to the sorrow and the loss.

So I mourn the person I could have been

The life that could have been mine,

And I grieve for the mother who devoured me

Leaving nothing but sadness and regret behind.

 

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Yep, they’ve put her through intensive programming. Sadly, I’m sure an untrained counselor assisted in the damage because her thoughts are deep which makes me believe she was forced to ponder this for an extensive amount of time.

My daughter’s alienators gave her much worse poems, one was about a sheep rejected by its mother for being ugly.

 

COMMENT

This is not your flesh & blood speaking, this is not your authentic daughter, this is the workings of very disordered adults. My heart goes out to you both. 

 

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Change your perspective - it may seem that the finger is pointed at you but maybe this is her sharing the experience with the other parent and just saying for the sake of the reader it's about you....... I send love and faith.

 

MY RESPONSE

thanks for ur suggestion to somehow change my perspective. I know my pain to read her words and at the same time far down I know I am grateful (not ready to embrace anything in that… but I know that is true) and know this is a gift to have her deep knowledge and pain be brought so boldly and up front to me right in front of my face right now in true real time. I can guarantee she will never share her deepest thoughts and these poems with father. And I think it was miraculously meant to be that I actually did. Thank u for just changing the scenario for me to see this as something above and more than the dark hopeless bottom low that this put me in… it’s taken on different degree that I thank u for

 

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This poem shows how deeply she loves you. This is pure, raw pain. It is like the bare soul of every alienated child. I hope she finds her way back to you. She needs to and you need her to. I’m sorry for how painful this must have been to read.

 

A RESPONSE TO THAT COMMENT ABOVE

I agree.

 

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That is so hard to read…you are so honest and brave to share this. The thing to remember is that the opposite of love is not hatred, it’s indifference. This girl is not indifferent to you. My son told me he grieved for the mother I never was, which is sort of similar to your daughters’ ending thoughts. We have to figure out what these people do to our kids to make them believe this stuff so wholeheartedly. Amy Baker and families divided tv on YouTube go into a lot of detail on how to reunify with alienated adult kids. I’ve needed to take breaks from the pain of this. But remember, this is a false narrative.

My heart is so sad for you. I know how bad this feels and how complicated it is.

 

COMMENT

The first thing I noticed at the start she states out the rabbit does that when senses danger or cannot provide any longer, I see that as possibly acknowledging you have valid reasons, but it still hurts. I write when I'm missing someone, scared, and a mix of emotions, I don't think I've ever wrote a happy piece, it’s a great outlet, but I see how this piece would hurt, but also , she still thinks of you and misses the good relationship you did have at some point. Hugs and remember the love that was great and hold that memory to pull up when the hurt and loss overpower.

 

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You need to take this to your counselling. We often think our children miss us. But they are eating the poison of the other parent.

****RESPOND TO THIS ENTIRELY!!!*****

 

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This is heartbreaking. These kids are so abused and consumed by the alienator. How can another person, a parent, cause such damage to their own child. I know I was not a perfect mother, but I don’t deserve any of what I have been put through and I’m sure that you don’t deserve it either. None of us deserve this. We would never be in groups like this if we didn’t desperately love our very lost children. I’m so sad and heartbroken for you. That poem was heart wrenching to read 💔

 

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I am so terribly sorry.

 

COMMENT

Man, that was tough. So sorry. Worst part is I wonder what my son says about me.

 

REPLY MADE TO THAT COMMENT ABOVE

No Charles don’t do that… we know what they say. The alienators are textbook in their tactics and these kids all mirror that behavior. It’s all predictable and not our business. We know what they are saying…. How are they truly feeling? These kids have no one who cares about their feelings except for us…. the targeted parents.

 

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Ya know... in all these dark pieces I’ve read from the alienated kid … it’s written as if their life sucks so bad where they are that they are angry we left them. But we never left them. They just don’t know. Because we are gone, they suffered through out their life. If this isn’t evident these children are in fact abused, I just don’t know what is…😢

A happy well-rounded child raised by healthy parent wouldn’t have such struggles and anger … wasn’t this the child’s idea after all????? Oh that’s right... it never was.

****I NEED TO RESPOND ABOUT THIS ONE….****

 

COMMENT

I don’t have many words except I am so sorry for you and your daughter’s pain. Wishing you strength and hope.

 

COMMENT

I think it takes a tremendous amount of work to put pain into words that describe our hearts. I'm a talker and struggle over and over to get my feelings conveyed through words and I'm near 50. Perhaps this is just an attempt and not as literal as it reads. Poetry is very subjective. Kids also tend to have a flair for the dramatic and no I'm not minimizing her true hurt, but I wouldn't take this as scripture. Multiple influences possible and in the end, it’s a poem. Life is about to really start for her and as experiences and maturity dog their heals in, let her reconsider just how difficult life, motherhood, marriage etc. actually is, not perception from a poisoned childhood by alienating parent. It's a lot of emotion and I don't see her being satisfied with leaving this unresolved. Imagining myself reading that as if it were my alienated daughter I'd be showing up the second she is 18 face to face. Noticing the not being in view or in sound makes us less real to them. Face to face is when I find out just how much my kids actually feel, not their behaviors that make me think it's worse than it is with the no responses, indifference.

Don't lose hope is all I'm trying to say. Not off a poem possibly written for other intentions you just don't KNOW for sure until she explains it in person. I have this feeling it's not what it appears. With great great love and a huge hug, I’m sorry it feels so devastating...

****I NEED TO MAKE A RESPONSE TO THIS ENTIRE POST!!!!*****

 

A REPLY TO THAT COMMENT

beautifully written. I like how you think!

 

COMMENT

I personally think she is grieving for the mother that she still loves and wants but because of the alienator she can’t say that.

***RESPOND TO THIS****

 

COMMENT

When my daughter came to me and accused me of neglecting her, beating her, and starving her, I was completely and utterly dumbfounded. It is poison from an enemy's flask. Do not receive it.

***RESPOND TO THIS****

 

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It's all the rage these days... your child has been brainwashed into not holding herself accountable.

Don't beat yourself up.

They have to learn the hard way sometimes, we all do..... stupid, hurts.

**RESPOND TO STATING “STUPID” & REPLY TO THIS COMMENT IS BELOW***

 

A REPLY TO THAT COMMENT ABOVE THAT I NEED TO RESPOND TO CLAIMING ANYTHING REFERRING TO “STUPID “and OPENS UP Pandora’s Box TO THE ENTIRETY OF “BEING A WASTE OF TIME!!!”

Oh no, that is gut wrenching, and so so wrong. I am so sorry for you both. Hugs xxx

 

COMMENT

Poor grieving alienated kid.

that pain has been projected onto you.

 

REPLY/COMMENT

She must have been around 5 when the alienation started so how does she remember all that you were supposed to have done to her. No one remembers very much from 5 years of age.

***AGAIN RESPOND TO THIS THAT IS NOW PISSING ME OFF!!!!****

     ***GUESS I REPLIED AND IN 2022? WAS STILL ENABLALING HIM TRYING TO DO ANYTHING POSSIBLE TO GET HIM TO STOP….CHECK DATES AND FIGURE OUT WHY UNTIL RECENT MONTHS CONTINUE TO MAKE IT EASIER TO JUST SAY AFTER HIS ATTEMPTS AND NMOW KNLOWING FKIRST FALSE OFPS AND ATTORTONYS FOR DIVORVE …     EXPLAIN IT ALL……SHOWED EMOTION TOLD SHE CAN MAKE IT THAT I WILL NEVER SEE MY DAUGHTER AGIN IF SHE WANTS. COULDN’T SAY HE DID IT TO ME WITH HER ON THE SAME OUCH THAT 1ST JUDGE……I COULDN’T DARE TO EVER SAY ANYTHING BECAUSE CUZ I FEARED THEY WOULD TAKE HER AND PUT HER IN THE FOSTER CARE SYSTEM … MORE TO SAY………………………………HOLY SHIT     IMPOSSIBLE TO GO THROUGH THIS TO TALK ABOUT IT….HER WORLD WAS INSTINSTLY DESTROYED  BEING ON THE SAME SAME COUCH  DOING IT AND SAYING IT all..

Fuck… just say it all and show it all and family needs to see their all but does maddie haveto hear this part ever that i… only once said this alienation piece with these ways to get help and that is a entire story … and anyone wanting to try to claim anything negative about that im readyu to go with almost 2 decades of records to anything acrocess the sprectrum .

***but I need to appoligize  to

Sharon P Kincaid

She must have been around 5 when the alienation started so how does she remember all that you were supposed to have done to her. No one remembers very much from 5 years of age.

 

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Sharon P Kincaid you are way off when the alienation started

 

Sharon P Kincaid

Anonymous member sorry you said she just graduated and it had been going on for 13 years. I assumed highschool graduation at 18 minus 13 years of alienation.

 

***ALL OVER AGAIN IT IS ALL MY FAULT… HE ERRILY FOUND HUMOR THE DAY AFTER HE TURNED IT PHYSICAL ….. NEED TO STATE THE ENTIRE THING…..

I JUST USE THAT 3RD COURT TIME WITH etc… AND succesfuuly took her with the last 2 court things only knowing one I CAN SAY EVERYTHING TO ALL THESE TARGETED PARENTS  JUST IN THIS POST SUPPORTING ME THAT EVEN THEN SEEMS SO IMPOSSIBLE … THAT I STILL WANT TO SHIELD HER FROM and almost 2 decades  of this wanting to believe THESE THINGS TO LIST…. That in a normal family system or anything close enough … that I can not let her know just ho bad it was and just kept being the best mother to her and ..list that all…. And say it to these targeted parents …. After almost 20 years  

let alone my own fucked family

 

COMMENT

This is the pathology - this is the narrative she’s been fed….clearly you’re on her heart; and she is screaming to be heard….if it were me I’d find her; meet her where she’s at in her anguish…and drip love when able….she’s broken….not from you but from this pathology….empathy is the doorway to her heart and can breakthrough this pathology….chances are you feel just as bereft as her…..there’s a very good chance she showed this to her dad and is rewarded for this in some way.

*** RESPOND TO THIS… SHE WOULD NEVER SHARE ANY OF THIS WITH HER FATHER…

 

COMMENT

Her father caused everything she writes about, but she can’t see it.

When children have only one parent, they are even more blocked from seeing that parents’ flaws and through their lies. Because if they could see the truth, then for them it would be like they have no parents left. So, they cling to that last parent even harder.

That pain and wounding your daughter has experienced is real. If her father shut you out, then all that pain is his fault. But she can’t see that yet.

I’m really sorry that you and she have experienced so much pain. 🙏❤️

 

COMMENT

I would also reframe this poem and the words in it.

The poem speaks of the pain inside her, and of what has been told to her of your supposed abandonment. It is the pain of this lie that has consumed her.

Pain of the loss of a parent can be all consuming.

Loss of a parent who you think walked away and abandoned/rejected you is an even deeper pain.

Do not let her pain crush you. This is highly likely what her father wanted.

Children have no idea how much the other parent has interfered and blocked us from seeing them.

 

COMMENT

So painful to read, way too close to home. I’m so sorry, you be the same, don’t let this destroy you.

 

COMMENT

This is not about you, it is her pain the poor child, you fight for her and show her unconditional love, make it about your baby not you please

***YES… RESPOND TO THIS****

 

COMMENT

Love the blame game, she has to realize one day when she has her own kids to understand a mother and her sacrifices.

***THINK I NEED TO SAY SOMETHING***

 

COMMENT

It is gut-wrenching and I understand how you feel.

Process the emotion and then come back.

When you come back, I hope you can be a little more detached and see the differences that I see.

May you see she still needs you to drip love. May you see the blame as a poor coping mechanism, may you see the attempts she makes to process difficult emotions. May you see the creativity and complexity that is evolving. May you see her contemplating the story she was told even if she still is inside of it. May you see that her frontal cortex continues to develop.

You are still a parent; she still needs you even if you are not there for the day-to-day.

 

2 REPLIES TO THAT COMMENT ABOVE

    COMMENT ONE: Wonderful response. Well said. Mother, it is difficult to see the poem, let alone to read it, especially when you know that it is your daughter that is the author. However, her feeling expressed in the poem is the deception of the PA illness, look at it from that side. I am sending all of my love to you to cope with your pain today. Just cope today and you will be able to lift up yourself tomorrow and keep on going to wherever next you need to go. Sending love and light...

   COMMENT TWO:  Easier said than done but your words are spot on & I also needed to hear this today, so thank you!

***AGAIN, A RESPONSE NEEDED****

 

COMMENT

She’s consumed by grief, love her with all you have, from a distance. I’m crying for you. I’m so sorry. Poor child too.

 

COMMENT

God! 😱. I’m so sorry 😢. I hope she sees the truth one day 🙏🙏🙏

 

COMMENT

My oldest daughter said a few similar things to me, which is interesting. “You are destroying everything I’m building” etc.

I was challenging all the hateful lies thrown my way.

After a year of alienation my middle daughter threw me a subtle message. It’s moms’ job to reach out to us, she’s the parent”

When I read this, I too see a subtle message. “I grieve”

She misses you desperately. Read the book untangled and focus on “externalizing behaviors in teens.”

It will help you understand what’s happening inside your child. It’s not about you. Private message me anytime, you’re not alone. ♥️

 

COMMENT

what is this book untangled?

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Rhonda Karadunis

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she probably knew you were going to read it. Try hard not to take it so seriously. It’s a reflection of him not you.

 

COMMENT

I'm so sorry, my heart breaks for you. 😭

 

COMMENT

God didn’t design for a mother and child to be this way. She only knows one side. You carried her for nine months; the connection is unmatched. Keep praying for her and send her nuggets of wisdom and love every chance you get.

***The COMMENT is for her. AFTER her entire favorite story was destroyed said below… comes a unbelievable other story that I already kew she was ready as adult to comprehend this that has everything to do withyour words after carrying for 2-1/2 weeks past due and our connection… tell story

 

They dared and then took her most important favorite story she non-stopped kept asking me to tewll it to her over and over again and nothing even her burthda parties or any presents even above surprising her knowing she was ready a year before the planned age to get her ears pierced …talk about that was still beneath this story of how special she was that honestly the brightness glow that she beamed was actually visible of such her specialness with a happiness and beyond pride ….     I was forced tro not tell her this favorite story claiming it was inappropriate and this scared her.

 

about her being that entierity of so maricalously special and wanted that I declared to a sister at age 3 That I wanted to be a Mommy when I grew I grew up and I was going to be a good mommy and I was to going to have a little girl and I had to wait my entire life for her and (was 35) she was a maricle…..

 

COMMENT

My heart aches for you.

 

COMMENT

Read between the lines. The pain is evident. Eventually she will dig deeper and see the truth. Drip small pieces of love, short text messages a Facebook post. Do you have any way to contact her?

***REPLY***

 

COMMENT

This is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry 🙁 Reading that has made me think that my Daughter probably feels the same way about me. You're not alone x

 

COMMENT

PA is so debilitating for the children as well. This poem is very personal to your daughter. Although I fully acknowledge and appreciate your pain, I would share with your therapist, but I personally wouldn’t post this out of respect for your daughter’s privacy.

…..MY RESPONSE:  exactly why this is an anonymous post.

****SAY MORE ABOUT THIS AND TO HER*****

 

COMMENT

What a beautiful poem…completely describing her dad

 

COMMENT

This is heartwrenching! I have so much empathy for you i want to reach out and give u a huge hug. It's been 31/2 years since i have had a conversation with my son, soon to be 20. Miss him every single day ❤

 

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I AM so sorry for you to be exposed to This evil programming .I pray that you Will find Faith in the fact That it has nothing to do With you as a Mother but everything to do with the disturbed other parent

 

COMMENT

This is utterly heartbreaking. I would feel exactly the same as you. If anything in this poem were true, she would feel relief that you’re gone, not sadness and regret. Her life should be better, not worse. This poem cannot be true, but, it will be a hard road for her to see that, so, I really do understand how you feel. ❤️❤️❤️

However you slice it, it’s hard to see your child clearly hurting so badly. My heart breaks for all you’re going through.

 

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My girls have sent me texts very similar and nasty, it is heartbreaking we are powerless and love them so so much

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ALL THE NEXT COMMENTS I am mostly blocking for to you read that I want to discuss why and talk about because I because I am the person in this world that would prevent you with anything but the first person to try to prevent you being involved in adultmatters… that even you are now an adult they are discussing political and gender issues and debates with/over parental alienation

 

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WILL NOT LET HER READ ANY POLITICAL OR GENDER DEBATES ON ANYTHING DOING WITH PARENTAL ALIENATION

 There seems to be a big anti-mom movement right now which I think comes from the father rights movement. It's despicable. And I'm sorry that your daughter is caught up in it as collateral damage; as well as you. These kids have NO IDEA of the reality. Breaks my heart with you. Please, please just see her as a manipulated and confused child. There is also a movement for the adult alienated children, that I hope she will see the light and move into that category. HUGS Mama!

…. HANG ON… ALL THESE NEXT COMMENTS 

 

I agree completely! It's a shitty time to be a mom now, yet the dads can do no wrong! The bar is raised so much higher for moms, I think, more is expected of us, there's so much more pressure!

 

agree, the level of hate is astounding

 

2 MORE REPLIES DISCUSSING THIS  WILL NOT LET HER READ ANY POLITICAL OR GENDER DEBATES ON ANYTHING DOING WITH PARENTAL ALIENATION. SHE ALREADY WAS FORCED TO CHOOSE

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COMMENT

I wish that I could give you a hug! My son has said very similar things to me (he once sent me a very nasty YouTube video for example on Mothers Day, saying pretty much how much he hated me) & I wouldn't want to read anything that he wrote about me because I already know that it wouldn't be flattering! Also, awful as this is, even in the best of circumstances, it's quite normal for teens to hate their parents, particularly the parent of the same sex, it's part of growing up & establishing their own identity etc & this is compounded a million times over with alienation so please don't take this personally. You're not alone, & you don't deserve to be treated this way.

 

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OMG, I'm so deeply sorry for u both

 

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She was lied too, once she has the courage to seek truth, it will be made known who fed her the darkness. My children believe i dont love them. That i left them, not that they were stolen from me

 

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It’s not nice shazz no one should go through that my eldest done some nasty stuff to me it’s gut wrenching

 

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I’m going through this now. The scars my sons says I left on him are deep. I had no idea he felt this way until just this week when he started to talk to me again after over a year of complete silence. Some closure to know what’s really on his mind but so sad to know he’s been taught to twist things around so severely. How do you come back from this? My heart bleeds for this kids that are hurt so badly and for the parents so wrongly accused.

 

COMMENT

Wow its beautiful, but I think she said mother instead of, clearly alienating father!!... not you! Put it away, she's hurting. I know she doesn't understand or mean it ...my daughter WAS EQUALLY cruel but seen the light eventually. Hugs.

 

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This is parental alienation!

She said she grieves.

This is manipulation.

This is good her processing.

She's asking others to see and try to make sense.

She mourns her life with you.

What could have been without the manipulation?

It's clear.

She's a very manipulated girl.

Bless her

Only sending her love and understanding for all she's gone through.

U still have to be the strong mum and hold that, which She's got to express!

 

COMMENT

You have to see through this. I know it’s near impossible to not take it personally. She’s responding to the injustices of the alienator. She doesn’t know yet, they are the true villain in this story. Stay strong, work on you. ✨✨🌟💫

 

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I am sending you lots of love and most importantly telling you, please look after yourself xxx

 

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I'm so sorry

 

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That’s just what they have programmed her to think ….. it’s pain she speaks of and missing her mother this too shall pass I do not know when or how but one day she will need her mom ❤️💗

 

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This is projection. It’s about him not you. Try and get some counselling if you can. There are free resources out there if you look hard enough.

….LOL, OKAY YOU, THAT’S GREAT SUGGESTING TO TRY COUNSELING ON TOP OF SOME FREE RESOURCES THEN ADDING IN IF I LOOKED HARD ENOUGH I COULD HAVE SAVED YOU…. 

 

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 This feeds the evil parent planting all those lies and the innocent children can’t see the truth and they really shouldn’t have to!!! I pray for wisdom and protection and please know you are NOT alone. Pray truth and hope and always love those kiddos and be a safe place for them to land if you get to still have them come visit you. My two older ones don’t but the youngest one does and we are going to court for custody. I will show what I can but I’m praying for wisdom for the authorities involved to have wisdom to protect my kids!

 

COMMENT

Oh my heart breaks for you. Never forget that those words are not true. As hard as that is to read, you know it’s not true. My heart also breaks for your daughter because I understand it is very real to her. My kids were told and believed that I never wanted them, never loved them and my son even believed I tried to kill him when he was a baby. All lies from their father but believed completely by my kids there were each brainwashed from a very young age. I tell you this now to give you hope. My kids now know and see the truth. You can’t give up. You may have to walk away to save yourself but never extinguish that last glimmer of hope. You cannot help them if you don’t care for yourself and heal yourself. Write journals. Share your thoughts and feelings with the paper. If all else fails, one day they will read those but in the meantime those journals can start to help you heal and save yourself from the abyss. Prayers for you. Be strong. Find happy again even if you have to find it without your kids. I know that sounds hard and harsh buts it’s not harsh. You are no good to them if you are living in the same hell that you climbed out of. That’s the goal of the alienator. To punish you for not continuing to bow to them. Remember that’s why the parents put their oxygen masks on first. So that they can be there to ablaze their kids. It’s not that they are putting themselves first. A child with an oxygen mask is not saved if their parent is not there to take care of them. Take care of you so, one day, you can hopefully help them. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

…………….MY REPLY IS FOR M in regards this targeted mother states it in her comment…”My kids were told and believed that I never wanted them, never loved them and my son even believed I tried to kill him when he was a baby.”

 

COMMENT

They write about their experience with the alienator. They do. In this mysterious tragicomedy of life, we always get shocked and impressed. This is our inner fire that burns down the ego, but by bit.

When my son was crying to the Family Report writer that he did not want his younger brother to go through “what he had gone through”, he was talking about his suffering caused by the alienator in the long years of being systematically poisoned. Remember, the targeted parent who went through previous abuse in life together is always an empath and that’s why it is even possible to get them down on their knees. And that’s why children no matter what will always sense which heart really cares about their heart.

****GOTTA DISCUSS THIS POST*****

 

COMMENT

How could she be talking about you - if you're the one that's been waiting it out?

Sounds like a case of mistaken identity as to who the poem is really about.....

I say this sincerely and with positive intent -

It's NOT about you. It's the mark of a kid infused w/ the misguided parenting of an alienating narcissist.

…… A REPLY TO THAT COMMENT:  Not with that attitude you won’t. Fix it. (WHAT??????)

…..MORE REPLIES:  Replace the word "mother" with "father". There you go. Sooo sorry😟…

AND: Simple but true it really is that simple.

 

COMMENT

She seems like a smart and sensitive girl who reflects a lot. I have hope that she will see things differently. Stay strong mom. Hugs.

 

COMMENT

This poem doesn’t actually reflect you, it reflects what alienation does to a child. Feel sorrow and forgiveness towards her, she is just a product of her situation.