KELLY TO ADD!

The works of World-Known Parental Alienation Expert and Researcher Dr. Amy J.L. Baker, Ph.D

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Amy Baker's works holds a special place in my life as she was the very first PA Expert I discovered back in late 2011/early 2012 after my daughter and step-son were already successfully alienated from me. I didn't know the term "parental alienation" but I sure in hell knew what was as it because it started in my pregnancy late 2004. I discovered Amy Baker searching for the terms I would try to describe it and the years of the threats and promises if I ever tried to say anything that I would never be believed then progressed to promising I would never get my daughter and I would simply not exist like I never even existed in the first place... so I was searching for something to find  about my 6 year old daughter being older. It was Amy Baker's 2010 book, "Adult Children of Parental Alienation Syndrome: Breaking the Ties That Bind", and I instanstly knew that the word for it was PARENTAL ALIENATION. And it wasn't a mother instinct that she would become an Adult Child of Parent Alienation as much as it was threatened and promised before she was even born... because that is exactly true word to exact word right here still today almost 16 years later after trying to leave him... or over 21 years since it first started about 6 months pregnant.  My daughter is now 21. An Adult Child of Parental Alienation. My stepson is now 38. He was already an adult when this father took my daughter. The works of Amy Baker *first* (don't quote me) researching Adult Children of PA and to watch the other PA Experts evolve in their works also with Adult Children is great. It really is. I want to be honest because while it's great*, I get very frustrasted because the progress moved about a millimeter in over 21 years. It's great to know that I always knew I was the healthy parent and the best therapist for my alienated daughter. It's great to know  that since the onset over 21 years ago that Narcisstic and Reactive Abuse is finally somewhat being recognized. It's great to know that...BUT WHAT? Sure, I hope it helps others and I can be greatful for that BUT... THEN WHAT? What for her... What for me... What for us? THAT'S great that are experts and researchers discovering what both my daughter and I have lived through since 2004.

RIGHT NOW I NEED A PAA MEETING. I am back to Step 1. ​​